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Timeless guidance for life's questions, from the Bhagavad Gītā, the Tirukkuṟaḷ and the Yoga Sūtras — each passage cited, and shown only where SevaCart can trace it.

This is not a chatbot and nothing here is generated. Every passage shown is real text from a source SevaCart already holds, selected by a reviewed mapping, and shown with its citation. Where a source has nothing to say about your situation, the page says so instead of finding a verse that nearly fits.

What are you facing?

I cannot decideWhat is actually my responsibilityFearGrief and lossAngerI cannot stop thinking about the outcomePride is in the wayThe mind will not settleI keep putting it offWorkLeading othersWho to listen toTrust and betrayalWhat to sayFamilyMoneyForgivingLearningFailurePurposeDeathThe right thing is the harder thingGiving and service

The people I did not choose and cannot resign from.

Anything more specific? (optional)

No — the whole thingA parentA rift that has lasted yearsWhat I owe, and where it ends

Which sources?

All relevant sourcesBhagavad GitaTirukkuṟaḷYoga Sutras of PatanjaliKatha Upanishad
Why some works are not offered here
  • Vidura NītiSevaCart's scripture library does not yet hold a citable passage of this work. It is reviewed and suitable — the text has not been entered, so there is nothing to quote and nothing has been substituted for it.
  • Bhīṣma's counselSevaCart's scripture library does not yet hold a citable passage of this work. It is reviewed and suitable — the text has not been entered, so there is nothing to quote and nothing has been substituted for it.
  • Yakṣa PraśnaSevaCart's scripture library does not yet hold a citable passage of this work. It is reviewed and suitable — the text has not been entered, so there is nothing to quote and nothing has been substituted for it.
  • Chāṇakya NītiNO LOCATOR. Maxims attributed to Chāṇakya circulate widely with no edition behind them. Without a verse reference, printing one as scripture would manufacture the citation. Note also that Chāṇakya Nīti is not the Arthaśāstra — they are separate works and separate entries here, so the two cannot be conflated by accident.
  • ArthaśāstraWRONG GENRE. A manual of statecraft: its counsel on rivals, leverage and force is addressed to a ruler managing a kingdom, and does not transfer to a devotee's difficulty with a colleague.
  • The Principal UpaniṣadsWRONG GENRE at the depth available. A mahāvākya is the summit of its Upaniṣad, not counsel for a difficulty, and selecting one to answer a personal problem flattens it. The Kaṭha carries the reflective load instead, because it can be quoted at enough length to keep a passage inside its own argument.
  • RāmāyaṇaWRONG GENRE, with a locator problem besides. Rāma's choices are narrative: what a character did under one dharma is not a rule for a devotee, and a card implying otherwise would teach the wrong thing about the epic.
  • Aṣṭāvakra GītāWRONG GENRE. Uncompromising Advaita addressed to a listener already established in it — Janaka is realised before the dialogue begins. "You were never bound" is true inside that dialogue and cruel outside it, and a person in grief or fear is not its audience.
  • SubhāṣitaNO LOCATOR, unevenly. Some verses name a work; others record only an anthology tradition with no verse. Quoting the collection wholesale would put well-cited and uncited verses on one card under one authority. Splitting it verse by verse is a content-authority pass.
  • The minor GītāsNOT ONE WORK. This names several distinct texts — Guru Gītā, Devī Gītā, Śiva Gītā and others — and it must stay several: any future enablement gives each its own entry. A blended "other Gītās" source would erase the difference between a Śākta text and a Śaiva one.
  • Dharma ŚāstraNOT SUITABLE, and this is not a coverage gap to be closed. The smṛtis carry historically situated social and penal prescriptions, some ordered by birth and by sex. Surfacing those as personal guidance would put SevaCart on the wrong side of both Indian law and its own devotees. They belong in the library with their historical context intact.
  • Brahma SūtrasWRONG GENRE. The sūtras adjudicate between readings of the Upaniṣads. They are a text about texts, and there is no honest route from one to a devotee's difficulty at work.

Your situation

On Family, 2 sources speak to this. They are shown separately, in their own voices, because they do not all say the same thing.

What this is not

  • If anyone in this situation is being hurt, threatened or controlled, your safety comes first. In India: 112 for police and emergencies, 181 for the women's helpline, 1098 for a child at risk. No teaching on patience, duty or forgiveness asks you to stay in harm.
  • If the weight of this is not lifting, or you are thinking of harming yourself, please reach someone today. Tele-MANAS, the national mental-health helpline, is 14416 — toll-free, day and night, in most Indian languages. In an emergency, 112. Scripture is not a substitute for any of that, and asking for help is not a failure of faith.
  • This is reflection, not a ruling. Nothing here decides anything for you.
  • The passages are shown under their own source. Where SevaCart has added an application, it is labelled as SevaCart's words, not the text's.
  • Where a passage shows no English, its translation is withheld pending source and rights review — not missing. The original text is shown as the library holds it.
  • Different sources answer differently. Where they do, both readings are shown rather than merged.

Source perspectives

Tirukkuṟaḷ

Why this was shownValluvar makes love the thing that makes a life a life, in a couplet that is uncomfortably direct about its absence.

The passage

அன்பின் வழியது உயிர்நிலை அஃதிலார்க்கு என்புதோல் போர்த்த உடம்பு

Transliteration

Anbin vazhiyadhu uyirnilai aqdhilaarkku / enbuthol porththa udambu

English translation pending source and rights review. The received text is shown above.

Kural 80

SevaCart’s reflection

Written by SevaCart, not by the source above.

The life that flows from love is the true life; without it the body is bones wrapped in skin. It is a statement about what holds a household together, put in the strongest terms the form allows.

What it does not mean

Not that a relationship must be maintained at any cost, and not that limits are a failure of love.

Read Tirukkuṟaḷ in the Wisdom library

Bhagavad Gita

Mahabharata

Why this was shownThe Gītā is spoken to a man whose difficulty is that his duty and his family are on opposite sides. 12.13 is its portrait of the disposition it recommends.

The passage

अद्वेष्टा सर्वभूतानां मैत्रः करुण एव च । निर्ममो निरहङ्कारः समदुःखसुखः क्षमी ॥

Transliteration

adveṣṭā sarva-bhūtānāṃ maitraḥ karuṇa eva ca | nirmamo nirahaṅkāraḥ sama-duḥkha-sukhaḥ kṣamī ||

English translation pending source and rights review. The received text is shown above.

12.13Spoken by Krishna to Arjuna.The Yoga of Devotion (Bhakti Yoga). Bhakti is supreme. The devotee who is friendly to all, free from possessiveness, even-minded in pleasure and pain, content, self-restrained, firm in resolve - that one is dear to me.

SevaCart’s reflection

Written by SevaCart, not by the source above.

Without hatred, friendly, compassionate, without the sense of "mine", even in pleasure and pain, forbearing. In a long family disagreement the phrase that does most work is the one about "mine" — much of what hardens a rift is ownership rather than principle.

What it does not mean

Not an instruction to have no boundaries, and not a suggestion that a family claim on you is unlimited.

Read Bhagavad Gita in the Wisdom library

Where they meet, and where they differ

Different emphases

  • Tirukkuṟaḷ — a question of conduct, character and prudence.
  • Bhagavad Gita — direct counsel to someone facing this and unable to decide.
  • These are different kinds of answer. SevaCart shows each under its own source and does not merge them into a single teaching.

Questions to sit with

  • What would repair look like, if it were possible?
  • What are the limits you need, and have you named them to yourself?
  • How much of this is principle and how much is ownership?

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